WE
ARE SIX!
Happy Anniversary as we celebrate six years as Smooth Transitions
of St. Louis! We look back and reflect on how blessed we have been to assist
several hundred families transition to a new adventure. We have taught many
lessons in right-sizing and have learned a lot more from our clients. There is
no right or wrong on what MUST stay or go with you and your kids are a lot more
interested in that small item that has more everyday memories than your complete
set of china for twelve. In celebration
of six years as senior move managers, Smooth Transitions of St. Louis wants to
share our LIST OF SIX and offer tips on everything from how to talk to your
parents about downsizing to how to enjoy the new adventure!
We are here to help and can do “as little or as much” as you want
us to do. Let us manage your family’s stress to the new address with a smooth
transition!
SIX WAYS TO APPROACH YOUR PARENTS ABOUT MOVING:
1. Start the transition conversation early before a
crisis happens.
2. Don’t start by telling them what to do.
They must take ownership.
3. Offer to get involved in order to get a better
picture of their finances and living conditions.
4. Help with everyday tasks to open the door for
conversations.
5. Acknowledge their feelings about their home.
6. Offer to take them on a tour of retirement
communities.
TIP: Nearly 70%of
households 85 years and older live in homes that lack the essential features
that allow them to live safely. Bring in a senior move manager (third
party) like Smooth Transitions. Your parents may be more open to hearing about
options from someone who can provide expertise and objectivity.
SIX REASONS TO RIGHT-SIZE:
1. Your home outgrew you-it is too big!
2. Your home has much needed and costly repairs.
3. The family no longer lives at home. The
house is lonely-no one to talk to.
4. Chance to reduce debt and shift investment.
5. Mentally freeing
6. You just don’t need it!
TIP: Older adults have usually not moved for 30, 40 or 50 years
and need to downsize considerably. They are struggling. But, are hesitant
to admit it. Let a senior move manager
(Smooth Transitions) guide you through the process to ease the emotional and
physical stress associated with moving.
SIX TIPS FOR THE PREPARATION OF YOUR MOVE:
1. Draft a design of your new place. Focus on
what furniture to take; not what to leave.
2. Place green stickers on items going to the new
location. Sorting is the most challenging process. Concentrate on items consistent with the
design, functionality and treasures.
3. If everything is a treasure; nothing is a
treasure. Do not overcrowd the new home.
4. The low hanging fruit or downsizing
opportunities exist in the kitchen, clothing, basement, and garages.
Remember, no storage at your new location, which means basement and
garage stuff is out.
5. Don’t forget the pictures. They provide
the finishing touch.
6. Do not worry about your remaining valuables.
They can be gifted to the FAMILY, sold via ESTATE SALE, DONATED, and then
finally DISPOSED.
TIP: Pour a cup of tea
or glass of wine and start sorting (green stickers) by confronting the smallest
room. Sort only or you will get bogged down. Memories will abound! Enjoy the process. Have fun.
Once you get the hang of it, graduate to a larger room.
SIX TIPS FOR SETTLING INTO YOUR NEW HOME:
1. The residence should not be present during the
move-in because of the potential hazard of moving furniture and too much
stress. This also sets up the “BIG REVEAL” at the end of the day. Select a family member or rely on your senior
move manager to coordinate activity in their absence.
2. Furniture placement is key. Have one
family member become comfortable with the actual look of the apartment while
the movers are still present. The results should be consistent with the
design and appealing to the residences’ wishes.
3. Many food items at the old home are outdated and
should not be included in the move. As a result, it is appropriate to
take canned goods, paper products, cleaning, laundry, etc. and then have a
shopping day to fill in the voids. Remember, the community serves many
meals and it is not necessary to have an abundance of food inventory or cooking
utensils.
4. The television, phones and medications MUST be
functional the day of the move-in. The residence will need them for both
enjoyment, security and health, respectively.
5. Once furniture is placed, boxes unpacked,
contents put away, and the final design has been implemented...then and only then,
hang pictures. The pictures are the icing on the cake. However, they should not be placed until
everything else is a go.
6. Be kind to yourself- you did it! Now, enjoy your
new home and manage the balance of the home transition (FAMILY, SELL, DONATIONS
& DISPOSAL) from a position of strength.
TIP: Senior Move Managers®
minimize the chaos and stress associated with moving by addressing all aspects
of the transitional process (Move, Family, Sell, Donations,
Disposal). Consider using Smooth Transitions to customize your unique plan
and make the transition easier.
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